If
you have never performed oral sex, or fellatio, on your partner well
here are a few good tips on learning this ancient art. Giving a
"blow job" or "Going Down" on your partner are one of the most
misunderstood sexual acts. In fact most premarital couples choose
fellatio and cunnilingus as a substitute for intercourse. So if it
is god enough for them, why can't it be introduced into the bedroom as a
form of foreplay. One more thing to consider, with the threat of
STD's and pregnancy on the rise, oral sex has become increasingly
popular over the last decade. So you want to
learn fellatio, well let me tell you a little secret. Fellatio is
so easy to learn, with a little practice, a little will, and a little
want to pleasure your partner, you will be giving your partner the best
oral sex of his life. Men really aren't that picky in this
department. Just the thought that his significant other has the
eagerness to please her man, is all he cares about. So lets get
you into the learning mode, and we will go over some basics.
The most important tools for properly giving
oral sex is your tongue and lips. After you have taken great care
and time to your partners body, making him just want you that much more,
you can now move in to the penis. Softly kiss and lick his entire
penis. Don't put it in your mouth yet, don't be so eager.
You wouldn't want him to go directly to the clitoris and attack it, no
you would want him to kiss the outer areas of the vagina before make his
move. Same applies here, make your tongue as flat as possible and
slowly like the shaft like an ice cream cone. Start at the base
and work your way up the shaft paying close attention to the head of the
penis. This is his sensitive zone, so don't go all crazy there,
just softly caress the area with your tongue.
Now gently grasp the base of the penis in
your hand and take the tip of his penis and place it into your mouth.
Now slowly glide the penis as far as comfortable into your mouth.
You may want to practice with a vibrator or dildo before hand, to find
out how much you can take without gagging. Be careful not to use your
teeth at this stage, your partner may not like it. Now simply
slide his penis in and out of your mouth in a rhythmic fashion, and
lightly pressing your lips around his shaft. Vary the speeds, and
stop every once in a while to pay attention to the head of the penis
before continuing on. Know before hand, if you intend to have him
ejaculate in your mouth, or on something else. He may intend on
ejaculating in your mouth and not bother telling you. Communicate
with your partner to let him know what you plan to do.
The more you practice, the better you will get and
you will be doing it like a pro in no time. Besides, you and your
partners ultimate goal is to sexually satisfy each other on all
levels. Also pay attention to your partners reactions, while you
are performing, you will not need to ask him if what you are doing is
pleasurable to him. If he likes it, his body language will let you
know. And don't be discouraged if your mouth is a little sore the
next day or two. It will take a little bit of time for your
muscles in your mouth to get acquainted with the new form of exercise.
Once you get used to it, the soreness will pass as well.
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