Men are like switches, turn on/turn off. It
is quite
basic really. Men are turned on so easily that before a women can't get anywhere
close, the man is done and ready to go to sleep. It has been shown that men
achieve an orgasm, within a few minutes of starting, where women need a good 15-20
minutes afterwards. 58% of women say that
foreplay was the most satisfying sexual
activity, and 65% of women say the foreplay is the one aspect that they wished
their partners paid more attention to. So this tip will be on the issue
of Foreplay.
For a change in pace, start foreplay early in the morning before going to work.
When you wake up, try to before she does, gently kiss and caress her all over,
trying hard not to put yourself in the mood to quickly. Remember, this is for
her. Let her enjoy you. Women have to work up to that finishing moment, so
lets help them along. Gently wake her up, suggest taking a shower together, if
she approves, you do the washing. Slowly wash her entire body, you may also try
massaging her as well. Take your time, be sensual, this is the key. Don't rush
into anything. Get out of the shower, and dry her off. Now you both can get ready
for work. Call her a few times at/or from work, tell her you love her, maybe send
her flowers, this is especially good if she works. Nothing makes them fell special
than receiving flowers in front of all their co-workers. When you both return from
work, have her get ready on her own. This maybe as simple as taking a bath, unwinding
from work, or simply just talking with you. This is where your partner will be starting
to make a nice sensual dinner. Usually make it simple, while its cooking, set the mood
of the house, place and light candles throughout the house, especially in the bedroom.
If it wasn't made in the morning, make the bed, clean up the bedroom, and if
available, light a few scented candles to help set the sensual mood you are trying
to make. By this time, your partner should be well on her way.
Now is the time where you eat, by candle light. Take it slow, pillow talk her,
that is always good. Women love pillow talk. Try feeding each other, don't make
it dirty, make it sensual. Remember men are to impatient and too orgasm-oriented. Make
her feel like this is her night.
Now its time to take it to the bedroom. Guide her, stroke her body while you make your
way to the bedroom, softly kiss her, you could also ask her to guide you at this point.
She knows where she likes to be touched, let her show you. This shows that you are
here for her pleasure, and you only want to pleasure her at this moment. Don't worry
you will get yours. We just want to make sure she gets hers too. While you are
caressing her, whisper sweet dirty talk in her ear, tell her she is the most beautiful
woman you know. After you get to the point of no return, let your imaginations flow
freely. She is half way there, and you are just getting started. So now is the time that
you can shine. Oral sex would be good here, don't be to quick about it either, when time
is taken to stimulate the vaginal area while paying very close attention to the
stimulation
of the G-Spot. This will drive her so wild, that she will want nothing better than to
return the favor to you and thus your lovemaking will be a lot more fulfilling. And now that your
foreplay is over and you and your partner are satisfied beyond all repair, now you will be ready to
duplicate this for weeks to come. But remember now, you will want to change things up a bit and make it
exciting each time you want to do your foreplay before sex.
