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When a man gives oral sex to his female partner it is called
Cunnilingus. This form of
oral sex consist of stroking the vaginal walls, clitoris, and the outer lips
of the vagina using your tongue to stimulate her to the point of orgasm.
Giving a woman
cunnilingus
the right way is almost a guarantee to her reaching orgasm.
Women love oral sex, it is soft and sensual, and it doesn't leave them
feeling used and abused. Foreplay, with cunnilingus, before intercourse
makes the female feel more special and important during sex. Plus her
knowing that she has already had an orgasm makes intercourse a little less
trying for the man to go ahead and get his. Better yet, giving each other
oral sex and both reaching orgasm leaves the rest of the night to endless
possibilities.
So you want to learn to please your partner in the department of
cunnilingus,
well follow these simple steps to drive her wild in bed:
- Start by not paying attention to the clitoris at all. Don't just dive in and
go to town on the clitoris. Concentrate on the other areas of the vagina first.
- Kiss on the outer walls of the vagina, lavishly lick on the vagina, insert your
tongue into her vagina.
- Now you may work your way to the clitoris. At this stage, don't flick the clitoris
with your tongue, yet. Gently lick the clitoris with the flat part of the tongue. A
neat little trick is to draw letters with your tongue around the clitoris.
- You may want to expose the vagina a little more to help find the clitoris a little
easier. This allows you to concentrate on the important area of the vagina to help her
reach her ultimate pleasures.
- Don't forget the rest of her body while stimulating her. Caress the other erogenous
zones with your hands, you may have to learn multitasking her, and if you can't walk and chew
gum at the same time, this area may need a little work.
- Now that she is just gleaming with passion and
ecstasy, now you can go in for the kill.
Attack the clitoris with a gusto. Be deliberate, but be gentle. To much of a good thing,
may not be that. You don't want to over stimulate the clitoris. Maintain a slow and steady
pace, nibble and suck on the clitoris. Word of warning, don't suck on the clitoris to hard.
This is a sensitive organ and it can be bruised, and become numb if roughed up to bad, so keep
it gentle and sensual.
Communicate with your partner during
cunnilingus. If you are doing something and she likes it, continue doing it, if
she doesn't like it move on to something else. Once you learn what your
partner enjoys you can experiment with new variations of her likes. The
more you do what she likes the more likely she is to reach orgasm. So the
most useful and effective technique is to do what she loves, cunnilingus is for
her so treat her to what she wants and loves. More than likely she may
return the favor.
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