Bondage is fun, and since there are so many different levels
of bondage, there is a skill level for you. Being tied up is a scary, but erotic feeling.
Knowing that you can't do a thing while your partner has complete control over what he can
and will do to you, is a complete turn-on. Of course trust and communication is a key
factor in bondage, and if you don't have these two factors, bondage could get pretty ugly.
One of the common
bondage misconceptions only for people who
enjoy pain or like to inflict pain on others. This is not the case, bondage as so many
different levels of scenarios, that there is a form of bondage for everyone. Some of the
simple forms of bondage gear include Restraints, restraining while Blind-folded, simply commanding
your partner to what he/she is told or be punished for not doing what their told. For the more
experienced, try role playing. This is where your partner is bound, and then told to do little
task. When he or she doesn't abide they are punished accordingly. Of course this sort of
bondage is not for everyone, and special care should be taken when attempting bondage for the
first time.
Whips are
bondage gear to use during bondage role-playing. Does
this mean to totally beat your partner to an inch of her life. Absolutely not, there is no
need to get that physical. Whips can hurt, but they only hurt when used improperly. Remember
that there are a lot of different areas on the body, so be selective on where you strike your
partner with a whip. Plus there a different types of whips, some that hurt when you hit your
target, and others that don't hurt at all when you hit them, no matter how hard you swing. So
you need to choose a whip that is in your guide lines.
So you ask, why would any one in their right frame of mind
want to be tied up and whipped? When you
are tied up and you give complete control to your partner, he or she can pretty much do
what every their fantasy is on you. They can be subtle with a feather, or completely
dominate with restraints and verbal commands. Of course with all fantasies, safety should be your main concern. Always use
safe practice's and some common since when attempting bondage. Some things that come to
mind. Never leave your partner unattended while bond. You never know what can happen
while they are bound, and knowing that your partner is hopeless makes you the caregiver,
and making sure he or she is in a safe environment. Use safe words. These are words that
are used to let your dominator know that they have crossed the line. Being bound is very
erotic, going to far can be very scary. Your partner knows his or her bodies limitations so
be respectful, and to stop what ever you are doing when a safe word as been announced. If
using restraints take special care with the tightness of the restraints, poorly bound wrist
or ankles can cause very bad blood circulation, if this happens a numb or tingling sensation
will begin, and it is the discretion of the person being bound to determine if they need to be loosened.
So know your limitations, know your body, know your partners body, be respectful of each
others body, and have an adequate amount of trust and communication, and your adventures in
bondage can be quite fulfilling.
It would be a good idea
to check out our bondage safety guidelines. These are just some
simple rules that should be followed while practicing and experimenting with
Bondage. Click here to check it out.
