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Anal Sex
Tips, Tricks and Positions
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Tips and Tricks
First off, let me tell you that the keys to
anal sex derives from four key points.
First off all, communicate with your partner. Just don't rush into it. You have
to know what your partner can handle and what they can't. Second of all go slow. If
you don't go slow you could damage the inner walls of the rectum and serious bleeding
can be the result, and then the lack of trust with your partner begins. So take
anal sex
easy the first few times. Start off small, use a finger and probe the exterior of the
anal cavity, work your way up from there. Third thing to think about is plenty
of Lubrication. Use liberally, and an adequate amount of lube will go along way, in
the long run. Plus it helps keep the inner walls moist and slippery to avoid them
from becoming damaged. Last and the most important, is the art of relaxing. When
you can learn to relax your muscles in and around your anal cavity, sex will be
a lot more enjoyable for both you and your partner. This is the key ingredient, that
is also the most unused. The anal walls are constricted as it is so when the muscles
are loose, they are more acceptable to allowing a finger, toy, or your partner's member
to access it. With the large amount of nerve endings in and around the anus, orgasms
will be a lot more explosive. You may also want to buy a anal sex instructional video
or a how-to guide to help aide you on your path to discovery.
Toys and Things.
When selecting
anal toys for anal pleasure, be sure to find ones that are flared at the
base. This will help keep it from going to far in and avoiding that
embarrassing trips to the ER. Choose anal toys that don't have any rough edges on them. This
could result in a painful adventure. If trying Anal beads for the first time,
make sure that the beads are smooth and the cord is strong. Don't want the cord
to break with half of the beads still lodged in the anal cavity. Butt plugs are
designed for just that, they are used to help train your muscles to relax giving
yourself a pleasurable feeling during intercourse. So if anal sex is your thing,
remember to keep it slow, keep it lubed, and keep it loose. Remember these things
will make your anal sex more enjoyable.
Positions
Figuring out what
anal sex positions
are best for you and your partner will take a little time. Most women like to be
in control of the whole situation. This way they know what they like, what they
are feeling, and if it is good or not. Any anal sex position shouldn't hurt any,
and with time and patience, and a lot of lube your lovemaking should be quite
enjoyable. If it wasn't what you expected, that's ok to, it is not for everyone,
and you don't have to do things that don't make you feel good during sex.
That is the ultimate goal, sexual satisfaction, for both you and your partner.
So explore, enjoy, and find out what does and doesn't satisfy you and your
partner. While exploring anal sex positions that both of you will enjoy.
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